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Diary of a 23yr old Mermaid livin' on land. San Diego native livin' in the South.
Taken by a u.s. Marine.
Lovin' life and my beautiful baby girl.
Sassy, classy but never trashy.

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my-semper-fi-kinda-lovin said:

Your advice is on point girl👌

thank yah ma’am!

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Anonymous said:

(part 4) no longer together. But it kills me to see pictures of them together, i feel like he moved on so quickly. But I also just feel SO guilty for breaking up with him when he needed me the most. I hate myself so much, everyday the thought of it comes to my head and I feel like I am the worst person in the world for leaving the guy I love and loved me. I hate myself for breaking all my promises to him. :( idk how to deal with it. Sorry this is so long :(

If you feel as if he moved on too quickly… then one he wasn’t really in love with you or two.. he just decided to let go and move on with his life. Don’t kick yourself in the butt for breaking up with him. Why in the world would you want to be in a relationship with someone who constantly accused you for going behind their back? I know how that is. Its annoying.

I mean, yeah, I’m sure being deployed to Afghanistan is extremely stressful, I only know so much since I am not a service member, but you can only give so many excuses. Just think.. he could be acting the same way with his new girlfriend. So don’t feel bad for yourself. He could have also been acting that way because he had something to hide. A LOT of people react insecurely and treat their significant other badly because since they, themselves, are doing things they aren’t suppose to be doing. 

Like I said, just because you love someone doesn’t mean you two belong together! If its meant to be then your destinies will intertwine once again. You just have to be strong. He moved on. Don’t be that girl who swoons over her ex. Your life will get better. Maybe, just maybe, someone better will come your way! :) Keep your head up high.

Anonymous said:

(part 3) fights anymore so as much as it killed me I needed to get out of the relationship. About three months after we tried getting back together but again I was getting accused for something i didnt do so I told him I couldn't anymore. I love this kid with all my heart. He means the world to me no matter how much stress he put on me. Sorry this is so long ill get to the point now. Hes back now and hes got a new girlfriend. I cant really do anything about that since we are

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Anonymous said:

(part 2) Might I add besides going to school I stayed home, so obviously it was impossible for word of me doing something wrong could go around. Anyway I let it go... My birthday came and we didnt get to talk that day but we talked very early morning the next day like 3 am... I was expecting a happy birthday even tho it wasnt my bday anymore but its still nice, I didnt get that and it upset me so much... blah blah about two days later it was another fight. I couldn't take the pointless

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Anonymous said:

I really liked the advice you gave that other anon so would you mind giving me some advice ? I was in a relationship with a marine and like any other couple we had our ups and downs. Our fights were usually about him getting mad at me for things he would hear that weren't true or things from my past. He got deployed to afganistan and for the first month we were doing good...one day he was able to call me and started fighting with me again because apparently I had done something... (part 1)

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Anonymous said:

When I'm upset I rethink about my "engagement". I feel like I'm not good enough. It's getting tiring and I just find myself hating every flaw he gas. It's like I'm not happy anymore I do love him but I'm very insecure. What do you suggest I do?

You’re probably not going to like what I’m about to say.. but if you are no longer happy then don’t stick around making yourself more miserable. Why continue to let yourself be unhappy? Just because you love someone doesn’t necessarily mean you are suppose to be together. You can love someone but if you aren’t IN love then don’t force yourself to be in that relationship.

I know so many couples who are just together because they are COMFORTABLE being with one another. You guys shouldn’t be comfortable. You both deserve happiness and the kind of love that keeps you on your toes, that makes you want to scream to the world that you both are in love. Love should never be something along the lines of ordinary. Never settle for less than what you deserve. Majority of people settle for what the think they deserve. Don’t settle. You deserve better.

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